How Can You Cope with a Crisis?

Tragedies happen in our world every day, and many of these tragedies can affect us deeply.

Beyond a trauma that we might face directly, the startling realities we witness through news reports can cause “secondary trauma.” This refers to the negative and sometimes debilitating emotional response we experience when affected by the losses of others.

Exposure to this trauma can cause emotional, physical and spiritual exhaustion and impairment. And it affects all ages; in fact, a majority of crisis calls come from young people.

No one can ever be fully prepared for every crisis or exposure to crisis. We can, however, make choices that lead to growth and healing.

There are decisions and actions we can take to minimize the impact and maximize the recovery from secondary trauma. Here are five suggestions that can help in times of need.

 

1) Understand normal reactions

When tragedies occur, horrific headlines and images often play in our minds again and again.

It is common to experience a wide range of emotions that are too complex to organize.

It is not easy to wrap our minds around reasons for sudden death or perpetrated violence.

Feelings of shock, disbelief, fear, and sadness can affect all areas of our lives and drown our spirits. These are normal reactions to abnormal situations.

 

2) Realize the effects of other losses

There are two factors that affect how you cope with a crisis: your past and your present.

Any past crisis or traumatic experiences can affect how you approach crisis support today. If you’ve been affected by painful past events, such as a family death, divorce or other event, you may find yourself consumed with flashbacks and memories of these times.

Your present condition will also affect how well you deal with stress.

Life’s stressors, such as caring for an aging parent or enduring financial problems, may seem magnified when experiencing another trauma at the same time.

 

3) Consider past healing

Most likely, you have already survived one or even many losses or traumas. Consider what helped you most during those times and seek similar solutions.

Also, consider what did not help and try to not repeat those coping attempts.

These could include indulging in unhealthy behaviors or not addressing your feelings at all.

 

4) Be intentional in self-care

Take care of yourself!

Be patient, but also be deliberate in daily choices that bring health and healing.

Spend time with friends and family. Go for a walk. Take a bubble bath or read a good book.

These and other activities of self-care can go a long way to balance the trauma of events outside our control. They bring emotional and physical relief and are necessary for preventing further strife and turmoil.

 

5) Recognize the need for help

If your stress is so strong that it gets in the way of your daily life, talk with someone. Don’t try to deal with trauma on your own – especially for sexual trauma. You can start with a trusted friend, relative or minister.

If there are ongoing, debilitating consequences resulting from any crisis in your life – ask for help.

You can regain your life again!

Seek help early, before the devastation of secondary trauma causes emotional or physical burnout.